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ISSUE DATE: April, 2005





I was ordering from Domino's Pizza, exhausted from a busy day, and asked the man on the phone if he didn't just have my regular order in the computer. He did and my order was complete.

As I hung up the phone I was shocked to realize what I'd done! Out of habit, without really thinking about it, without considering what I was hungry for, I had ordered the same old thing one more time. The regular. What I was used to. What felt comfortable and convenient and easy.

Now, we know that our thoughts create our reality, our experiences in our life. Thoughts lead to emotions, emotions lead to the actions we take, and the actions we take lead to the results that we see in visible form around us. It all begins with our thoughts.

And in the restaurant of life, what we order is what we get. It's as if the waiter of the Universe is standing by for our every command. We can have whatever we choose in the limitless abundance of life - it's all there for the asking. We know from Quantum Physics that our thoughts and emotions create a vibration that causes our physical world to change. We know from the wisdom of the ages and countless practical examples that we create every aspect of our lives based on what we choose.

If we are unconscious in our ordering, our subconscious mind chooses for us based on our beliefs and programming from the past, what we have come to be comfortable with.

If, instead, we step into our power to consciously create our lives, then the miracles and magic begin to happen.

Mark Victor Hansen reminds us, "Most people find themselves never achieving their dreams … simply because they never asked. One of life's fundamental truths states: Ask and you shall receive. Isn't that simple? Of course it is. The world responds to those who ask. Most people in this world, however, find themselves in settled lives, never really achieving or receiving what they hold in their dreams … because they just never ask."

So the question is: What are you ordering from the restaurant of life?

Are you settling out of habit by asking for the same old thing every day? Do you like what's being delivered? Are you ready to try something new?

Are you choosing scraps and leftovers, or are you ready to enjoy the full banquet of life?

One woman in my workshop chose to let go of the reasons she could only lease a home and is now the proud owner of the house of her dreams! A man chose to have great, big, happy financial surprises and received four checks from unexpected sources that same week! Another woman chose to be on television and was on a major show the next week! Two women at one of the workshops this month manifested $100 bills!

If you're ready for a change, it's important that you become aware of your thought habits. What you think is what you see. What you focus on expands. Thoughts you ignore fade away from lack of attention. Habits are created and then reinforced by repetition. If you can create a habit, you can always choose to create a new one.

When you are at the restaurant of life every moment of every day, here are some simple steps you can take:

1. CHOOSE what you desire. When you place your order at a restaurant, you don't just order "food" and leave it up to chance. Ask for what you desire, what makes you feel really good inside. Choose powerfully and positively. Be clear, definite, and specific.

2. EXPECT that your order is being filled and let go of the need to know HOW what you've chosen is going to be delivered. When you're in the restaurant of life, you don't need to go into the kitchen to make sure the chef is preparing your order correctly. Rest comfortably in the calm certainty and knowingness that your order is coming to you in a perfect way in the perfect time.

3. VISUALIZE what you've chosen as if it's already present in your life several times throughout the day and especially before you go to sleep at night. Create your vision vividly in your mind with all of your senses as if you were playing a movie - see it, feel it, taste it, touch it, hear it, know it. LOVE what you see and allow those feelings of love to move into every cell of your body.

If any worries, doubts or fears come up, thank them for sharing, ignore them, and immediately refocus your attention and intentions on your perfect vision.

4. BE GRATEFUL for what you know you are about to receive. Expressing gratitude before it comes into visible form is a great act of faith and trust, and a confirmation that you know the Universe is working on your behalf for your highest good to delight you and excite you.

5. TAKE ACTION in your life. As you move out into the world act as if you ARE what you choose, HAVE what you choose, and DO what you choose! Then stay ready, with gratitude in your very being, to receive all your great good in wonderful ways! Open your arms wide to accept everything you desire and deserve! You'll be amazed at the way life begins to magically respond!!!

When your vision starts to appear in your life with coincidences, synchronicity, and joyful surprises be sure to get excited, express gratitude, and celebrate! This raises your vibration and makes you a mighty magnet for all you have chosen. You are now in the flow and these demonstrations are only the beginning of the great avalanches of abundance and prosperity that are coming to you in perfect ways.

Remember who you are. You are a dynamic creative force in the Universe. You have the power to create the life you love to live with grace, joy, fun, and ease.

And, most of all, remember that YOU DESERVE IT!

To your wealth and success,

Debbie Friedman, C.Ht.


For information on Debbie's Cleaning Out the Closet of Your Mind
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"Perhaps you have formed the habit of thinking of yourself as a common person, as one with limited ability, or as being more or less a failure. Whatever you habitually think yourself to be, that you are. You must form, NOW, a greater and better habit; you must form a visualization of yourself as a being of limitless power, and habitually think that you are of course that person. It is the habitual, not the periodical thought that decides your destiny."

- Wallace D. Wattles in
The Science of Becoming Excellent



I am excited to tell you all about a wonderful new center that has opened in Santa Monica, California. The Regenesis Center is a haven for those who are open to alternative healing and treatments, enlightened programs and speakers, and a facility that is full of cutting edge services to balance the mind, body, and spirit.

Created as a transformational rejuvenation center, this is an inspired sanctuary that is certain to be a special gift to all who experience it. With free introductory evenings each Wednesday, you can learn even more about the center and all that it has to offer.

To find out more about the Regenesis Center and the exciting programs that they offer, visit their website at RegenesisCenter.com.


"Thought comes first. Experience is always secondary. It is never the other way around - that you have the experience and then you base the thought around it. Always your experience is a direct reflection of what you are thinking. Clarity and recognition of your own power are the bottom line. Your thoughts form your world all of the time."

- - Barbara Marciniak in Bringers of the Dawn



I want to let you know about some of the exciting events that are coming up on my schedule! Bring your family and friends! I'd love to have you join me and I'll be looking forward to meeting you in person!

MAY 12TH at the Regenesis Center in Santa Monica, CA:

MAY 26TH at the Regenesis Center In Santa Monica, CA:

MAY 28TH and JUNE 4TH at the Learning Light Foundation in Anaheim, CA:

For more information about these events and how you can attend, click here.


"The person with a fixed goal, a clear picture of his desire, or an ideal always before him, causes it, through repetition, to be buried deeply in his subconscious mind and is thus enabled, thanks to its generative and sustaining power, to realize his goal in a minimum of time and with a minimum of physical effort. Just pursue the thought unceasingly. Step by step you will achieve realization, for all your faculties and powers become directed to that end."

- - Claude M. Bristol in The Magic of Believing


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Debbie Friedman, C.Ht.
Cleaning Out the Closet of Your Mind
15332 Antioch Street, #159
Pacific Palisades, CA 90272
Phone: (310) 230-0872
Fax: (310) 230-0972

Email: info@cleaningoutthecloset.com

Website: www.CleaningOutTheCloset.com

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