ARE YOU READY FOR
If your mind went immediately to the idea
of menopause, let me tell you right now that you're my kind of person. The
Change. Not "A" Change, but The Change. And, regardless of your gender
or age, that's what we're in the middle of on a global level.
Political views aside, we heard the words
during the recent election in the United States and people responded.
Change we need. Unite for Change. Change
we can believe in.
And as the weeks have passed since the
mandate was demonstrated at the polls, we see the acknowledgments. CNN refers
to the change in administrations as a "Transition to Power"
(emphasis added). AOL chose to title the Obama news page "America in
Change. Transition. Like it or not, it's
on its way. In fact, it's here for us now.
In my opinion, women of a certain age have
an advantage of knowing what to expect on some levels. Emotionalism. Intensity.
A sense of loss. Wondering where you are and what you're doing. Physical
challenges and changes. At times an overwhelming sense of being out of control.
Anger and rage at what is no longer acceptable. The inability to pretend that
the unacceptable is okay or can be ignored. Priorities changing. Unwilling to
abdicate your power.
It's not easy. Often it's not very pretty,
convenient or predictable. One thing we know for sure - it's a necessary
My first class lecture at the university I
was teaching at comes to mind. As I began to introduce myself, I felt it coming
on. If you've never had a hot flash it's nearly impossible to describe, but I
can tell you that moment was like a huge wave of heat starting at the top of my
head and moving down through my toes. Standing there drenched and soaking wet
as I looked out over a sea of horrified faces, I let them know that we were in
for a long ride together. It was a joyful journey.
39 and going through what was called an
"early" menopause, my doctor refused to give me any help or support until I
demanded it. I'll never forget that day - walking out of a class that I was
teaching, driving 30 minutes to Beverly Hills, going straight into his office
and up to the front counter and in no uncertain terms telling the woman at the
front desk, "I want my Premarin and I want it NOW!" I was ready to climb over
the counter, but gratefully they responded. The first time in all his years of
practice, Sandy (my doctor) took me into his office while he was laughing
hysterically to give me my first dose.
My point in bringing this up is that there
is no magic pill that someone can give you to take away your symptoms.
Like a tremendous wave of hormonal shifts,
our world is going through THE Change. MEN (and women) - 0H - PAUSE!
I encourage you all to PAUSE, take a deep
breath and evaluate your life, your circumstances and your daily practices.
My questions to you are: Are you ready?
Are you prepared? Are you willing to let go of the comfort zone you've known
for so long that simply wasn't working well for the vast majority or are you
going to stand in resistance and denial?
In numerology, 2009 is an "11" year, a
number of mastery. This is the year to master your lessons in this school of
Life on Earth, and to demonstrate your personal power by consciously creating
the life you desire and deserve, the life you love to live. As you do, you will
be a powerful example to those around you that they can do the same.
2009 is primed to be a dynamic and
sensational, almost magical, time for manifestations!
If you're new to these ideas, I encourage
you to visit my archived newsletters and to listen to some of the recorded
calls and programs that are available.
For those of you who have been with me for
a while, you already know what to do. Stop thinking about it and start doing
Here are some beginning steps:
1. If it's not working, stop doing it.
2. If it was working and
you've stopped doing it (for whatever reason), get back on the train and start
moving in the right direction again. Think back to a time when your life was in
flow and abundance, maybe even in an incredible state of ecstasy and bliss, and
pick up those tools that you may have left behind.
3. Connect with like-minded individuals.
Connect with people who have already gone through the change and ask for
guidance, experience, strength and hope. I've been preparing for this moment in
time for nearly 20 years and there are many others out there like me. Avoid
those people who are wallowing, digging a ditch to crawl into, complaining or
I am offering several new groups to
connect with and I invite you to join us. If you're new to manifesting or feel
the desire to hone your skills, this may be the perfect time. Click here for more information.
4. Choose consciously what you desire for
your life. Write out your choices being as clear, definite and specific as
possible. Ask the Universe for what you desire. If you don't know where you're
going, you may never get there. If you aren't aware of your choices, you'll
miss the great opportunity to celebrate them when they show up as a
confirmation of how powerful you really are.
5. Stop any negative thought habits and
take control of what you're giving your focus and attention to. Remember, your
thoughts are the seeds that you are planting in the fertile ground of the
quantum field for what you're creating. While you're at it, be sure to turn off
the television and stop watching or reading anything negative or fear
6. Choose your words wisely as they're a
direct reflection of your beliefs, the unconscious operating system for your
life and a clear directive to the Universe for what you choose to experience.
Next month I'll be sharing some of the research from Russia on this. The words
you speak can literally change your DNA, your genetic potential.
And, a definite relief, lightness, a deep
sense of peace, and freedom always comes from the daily practices of gratitude,
appreciation, joy, faith and love.
As you raise your vibration with thoughts,
feelings, emotions, actions and expressions that are inspired with bliss and
joy, you will most certainly SEE and BE the change you've been seeking.
Let's join together to create an
absolutely magnificent and outstanding year for all! WE deserve it!
To an abundant, joyful and prosperous New
Year for us all,